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Sooner or later, EVERYONE business and pleasure travelers, singles, those divorced or widowed, very-marrieds whose spouses are on the road, harried moms and dads, etc. faces the challenge of eating out alone!

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December 2004

I travel on business six times a year or so, and dining is the WORST part of it! I'd would LOVE to see more recommendations for where a "solo" can eat without feeling like a social outcast.

One tip that some folks might like is to join an organization like Rotary. As a member, you are welcome to attend meetings anywhere in the country. They all involve a meal, and great conversation.

K. Killion Chicago, Illinois

Great suggestion and good plug for a worthy organization. is pleased K. Killion is "glad to discover Solo Dining website!"

November 2004

I began dining out alone because I needed time on the road that was just for me no business to discuss! The evening now becomes totally for me.

R. Jackson San Francisco, California

October 2004

If you're nervous eating alone, look for a share table a large table set aside just for solo diners. They are very common in Europe. And while they are less common in the U.S., they are not unheard of in larger communities.

J. Barracks Clear Lake, Iowa

September 2004

It was very difficult at first for me to eat out alone. But after a while, I would exchange greetings with other solo diners like me and soon I felt like I belonged.

P. Brown Olympia , Washington

August 2004

Select restaurants with low-back chairs, etc. that facilitate eye contact with others.

Bring something to read, but not a book.

Act like an important person.

J. Rehnquist San Diego, California

July 2004

I take a book to read or postcards to write. I also talk to the maitre d' or my waiter and ask them questions about the food, the chef and the history of the restaurant.

R. Rusinski Atlantic City, New Jersey

June 2004

To make solo dining easier, I pick restaurants I want to go to because of their quality in food/atmosphere. I don't go when I feel lonely.

E. Black Baltimore, Maryland

May 2004

I grew up in Germany where it is not "strange" to eat out alone, so I was surprised to discover that people in the U.S. feel sorry for solo diners.

My advise is to be assertive about where you're seated in a restaurant; it can make all the difference.

P.S. I met a nice guy who was out dining with a couple who sort of acted as "matchmakers" cute!

W. Mitchell San Francisco, California

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April 2004

When I first began dining solo, I felt people were staring at me; I didn't know how to occupy myself while my meal was being prepared.

I learned to select restaurants that cater to business people not lovers.

I also try to get a table well situated for people-watching.

Name withheld by request

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March 2004

Order your meal as if you were escorted. Don't try to make the waiter your escort with cutesy stories, etc.

I really enjoy not feeling responsible for a female companion's inability to tip properly having one ticket suits me.

A. Dickwis Pinebluff, Arkansas

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February 2004

I've done several things to make solo dining easier. I decided to do what I want and to be more comfortable.

That has included requesting a table out of the traffic pattern, asking the staff to leave the extra place setting (It gave me a cushion of comfort while I was adjusting to eating alone.), and suggesting that a pleasant-looking individual share my table.

L. Brown Colorado Springs, Colorado

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January 2004

I've never really thought about dining solo as being strange. It was something I did.

I guess to become comfortable doing it, you must know enough about yourself to understand how to entertain yourself.

F. Jackson Evanston, Illinois

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